Our lifes...

We sometimes allow emotions to rule our life, at times our family and friends and sometimes our crush/girlfried/boyfriend. Have anyone thought why we allow them to take control our life? The life is ours, dun we get to choose what we want? To me, I do not like my life to be controlled even though I listen to my parents but I do not totally be what my parents want me to be. I feel that if you want me to be this I will try to not be that person. The reason... This is my life! Whatever I do I will have to take the consiquences. If you tell me to be this and it turns out to be wrong are you going to take that respondsibility of ruining my future? I have the right to choose what I want to do in my life... If you want to ask me when will be the time when I will be controlled by someone, that time will be after I get married. As the bible says when a couple gets married, it is 2 flesh becoming as one so whatever my wife says I have to consider very closely. But for now no... i would not be controlle at all... In life, luv is important. The luv between friends, sibling luv, parental luv and even luving someon special (someone close to your heart). Without these luvs, life is meaningless, all you feel is lonelyness. But why is luv so complicated? Especially in a relationship? What is the purpose of a relationship... I onli know that for a relationship with a person from the other sex it is marraige... but what if he/she is not the right one for you? When you 2 break up what importance does the purpose hold at all? Think of these questions and think it hard... What you want in your life, be it your everyday life or your luv life. This is the main thing...